Monthly Archives: January 2011

30 
Jan

I hate my voice!

Hi y’all (a clue to where I am!)

Went to see ‘The King’s Speech’ earlier this month.  Brilliant film and I hope Colin gets his Oscar.  Anyway, it made me think of the most common response I get when someone hears that I’m a voice coach.  It’s amazing how many of them say ‘oh I hate my voice!’

Now why do you think we feel like that?  Well it could have something to do with an accent you’ve acquired that you don’t quite like.  (Recently I worked with a lady who hated her Liverpool accent, which was a puzzle to her as she had never lived there and neither had her family).  We also have a very strange perception of what makes a nice voice.  We hear our own voice resonated in the head where it can sound quite rich and full.  The problem is that other people hear it as it carries through the air which can be very different.  Therefore the voice on your ansaphone is speaking the ‘truth’ – that is how other people perceive you.  It is perfectly possible to change the way you sound by thinking about speaking clearly and taking a little bit more time so that words don’t become rushed.  To make yourself heard, if you have a quiet voice, just remember to open your mouth a little bit more to let out the sound and my most frequent request is to BREATHE PROPERLY!

None of these things are very difficult to do but unfortunately your speech habits are quite difficult to break and you will require a bit of determination.  It can be worth it as people notice subtle changes and appreciate your efforts to communicate more effectively.  Try it and see.

Back to ‘The King’s Speech’.  The King saw his stammer as an insurmountable obstacle in his role as monarch but with help, he was able to control it so that it wasn’t controlling him.  I suppose that’s what I mainly help people to do – be in control.

So, briefly, to my month which was busy if you’ve been following my tweets you’ll know I’ve had day workshops and lots of business clients.  Now I’m having a short break but gearing up for my next ‘Dynamic Speaking’ day on 4 March – just 2 places left so if you want to improve your presentation skills with a very interactive session take a look at the website here

I’ll be back soon but until then:

Speak wisely


            Speak well

                                       Speak   Loud & Clear!


Contact:
Web:  www.loudandclearuk.com/
Email: info@loudandclearuk.com
Phone: 01455 230317
Mobile: 07779519388

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Published Date: 30th January 2011
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02 
Jan

POSITIVE VIBES FOR 2011!

       
HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE,

I’m sorry you were blogless in December but those of you who were following my daily tweets will know how busy I was.  Did I work hard?….Yes!  Was it worth the jet-lag?….Absolutely!  Did I enjoy myself?….You Bet!

Some of you will know this was my 7th month-long trip to Hong Kong since 1998 and I must admit that I love the place.  Let me try and sum it up for you in a few words.

Hong Kong is…..
Vibrant    Noisy    Fast    Cultural    Go-ahead      Commercial

but it can also be…..
Beautiful    Peaceful     Restful      Surprising    and    Ever-changing

It all depends on whether you are hurtling along on the underground (MTR), indulging in the local hobby of shopping with 10,000 others or walking around a totally unspoilt beach or hillside by yourself.

So, I’ve given you a feeling for the place, now what was I doing there?

I was one of 20 judges mainly from the UK (but also from Australia, South Africa, USA, Ireland and France) working throughout Hong Kong and the New Territories judging 4 to 20 year olds on Public Speaking, Verse & Prose Speaking, acting and related communication subjects.  The competition had more than 200,000 entries – this is an 8% growth on 2009 and the demand for good English speaking is huge.  English is a truly international language and they see it as a passport to success.  How interesting that in the UK many people don’t think about how they are using it at all!

Anyway, apart from the judging I had another interesting experience this time.  When I was there in 2009 I was delighted to have an invitation to meet one of the trade delegation at the British Consulate.  She had been kind enough to contact some companies who she thought might be interested in my work during 2010 and this resulted in my taking a taster voice workshop at Standard Chartered Bank.  the group included the heads of HR, training and talent with members of their teams.  The response was very positive and I am in on-going communications with regard to taking it further so watch this space…

I have called this blog ‘Positive Vibes’ because I really believe we make our own luck and success.  OK, I know we are in a recession and doom and gloom are coming at us from all sides but that just means you have to believe in yourself even more.  You don’t always succeed as I have learnt myself having got to the the last hurdle for a contract with several major players only to have the plug pulled out at the last second (sorry about the mixed metaphors!)  Perseverance will pay off in the end.  I now have on-going training work with National Grid but this took over a year to come to fruition so keep at it and BE POSITIVE.

I am looking forward to a trip to the cinema to see ‘The King’s Speech’ which opens on 7 January.  the film stars Colin Frith and Helena Bonham Carter and is based on Lionel Logue’s diaries – an Australian Speech Therapist who helped the king control his stammer during the 1930’s and 40’s.  Trailers have mentioned that he used diaphragmatic breathing (which those of you who have attended my ‘Voice Matters’ course will have perfected…..I hope!) and I have also used it to help stammerers so it should be fascinating.

Have you been following my ex-student, Graeme Hawley’s, doings in Coronation Street as John Stape?  It became almost Greek Tradgedy while I was away but I caught up with it before Christmas.  Goodness knows what will happen to him in 2011.

Well I’m writing this as I recover from my granddaughter’s first birthday party yesterday.  Now I mustn’t eat for a few weeks. New Year resolution……to go to the gym more often.

My diary is pretty healthy this month with most individual slots filled and 3 workshops:
4 January for swimming coaches in Norwich
12 January for a company in Loughborough
17 January one of my ‘Vocie Matters’ open day courses in Solihull (NB 1 PLACE LEFT – £160)

So I hope to see some of you soon and I wish you all a very successful and prosperous 2011 and don’t forget to…..

Speak wisely


            Speak well

                                       Speak   Loud & Clear!


Contact:
Web:  www.loudandclearuk.com/
Email: info@loudandclearuk.com
Phone: 01455 230317
Mobile: 07779519388

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Published Date: 2nd January 2011
Category: Vibrant

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